Interesting that you mentioned the fact that we've all fractured into different groups as opposed to a larger whole. I was just thinking about this the other day. However I don't honestly believe that our group of friends is in it's current state of affairs due to the fact that "we were dicks to eachother". Rather, I believe that's a symptom of a larger situation. The plain and simple fact is that we are becoming grown ups. We all have our different situations right now. We are all in very different places mentally and emotionally right now.
Even in high school we were an ecclectic mix. Stoners, Geeks, Brains, Jocks and Outcasts... we were a large group of disparate types. For some reason it worked. But as we have grown up, we have also grown more different. Pappy and Wilson are running a business of their own creation. Calliander, you are starting up a life with a girl you love and running a happy household. Stone is well on his way to being a successful business man. Caniprokis is putting himself through school. Bean and Blood are settling down from their crazed younger years and trying to put their lives together. I'm trying to figure out who the fuck I am and what the fuck it is that I want to do with my life. But look at those descriptions. All of them are very different.
In closing I believe that we are not growing apart from each other because we're being dicks to each other, but we are being dicks to each other because we are growing apart.