Hate the sin, not the sinner, man. Forgive and forget.
Let me use this analogy:
A gold miner has his sights set on this one site for gold. He spends many years trying to get gold from this site unsuccessfully. So he publicly disavows the site. Does that mean that if someone goes to the site, he can exact revenge upon the prospector? No, he gave up his rights to the site publicly!
I think, Lio, you should forgive and forget the actions of drunk people.
Knaa'mean?